الإثنين 28 مارس 2022 - 15:43
( ﺳﺌﻞ ﻓﻀﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﻟﺸﻴﺦ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﺑﻦ ﺻﺎﻟﺢ ﺍﻟﻌﺜﻴﻤﻴﻦ -ﺭﺣﻤﻪ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ –
ﻣﺎ ﺣﺪﻭﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﺪﺍﻋﺒﺔ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻭﺯﻭﺟﺘﻪ ؟
ﺍﻟﺠﻮﺍﺏ : ﻳﻘﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﺰ ﻭﺟﻞ )) !ﻭَﺍﻟَّﺬِﻳﻦَ ﻫُﻢْ ﻟِﻔُﺮُﻭﺟِﻬِﻢْ ﺣَﺎﻓِﻈُﻮﻥَ(5) ﺇِﻟَّﺎ ﻋَﻠَﻰ ﺃَﺯْﻭَﺍﺟِﻬِﻢْ ﺃﻭْ ﻣَﺎ ﻣَﻠَﻜَﺖْ ﺃَﻳْﻤَﺎﻧُﻬُﻢْ ﻓَﺈِﻧَّﻬُﻢْ ﻏَﻴْﺮُ ﻣَﻠُﻮﻣِﻴﻦَ(( (6) ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻟﻤﺆﻣﻨﻮﻥ 6 -، ﻓﻘﺪ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻻ ﻳﻼﻡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻋﺪﻡ ﺣﻔﻆ ﻓﺮﺟﻪ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻣﺮﺃﺗﻪ ﻭﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻓﻲ ﺍﺳﺘﻤﺘﺎﻉ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﺑﺰﻭﺟﺘﻪ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺾ ﺍﺻﻨﻌﻮﺍ ﻛﻞ ﺷﻲﺀ ﺇﻻ ﺍﻟﻨﻜﺎﺡ ﻓﻠﻜﻞ ﻭﺍﺣﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﻦ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺴﺘﻤﺘﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻵﺧﺮ ﺑﻤﺎ ﺷﺎﺀ ﺇﻻ ﻓﻲ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺾ ﻓﻼ ﻳﺤﻞ ﻟﻠﺮﺟﻞ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺠﺎﻣﻊ ﺯﻭﺟﺘﻪ ﻭﻫﻲ ﺣﺎﺋﺾ ﻟﻘﻮﻟﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ)) : ﻭَﻳَﺴْﺄَﻟُﻮﻧَﻚَ ﻋَﻦْ ﺍﻟْﻤَﺤِﻴﺾِ ﻗُﻞْ ﻫُﻮَ ﺃَﺫًﻯ ﻓَﺎﻋْﺘَﺰِﻟُﻮﺍ ﺍﻟﻨِّﺴَﺎﺀَ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﻤَﺤِﻴﺾِ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﻘْﺮَﺑُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﺣَﺘَّﻰ ﻳَﻄْﻬُﺮْﻥَ ﻓَﺈِﺫَﺍ ﺗَﻄَﻬَّﺮْﻥَ ﻓَﺄْﺗُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﻣِﻦْ ﺣَﻴْﺚُ ﺃَﻣَﺮَﻛُﻢْ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﺇِﻥَّ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻳُﺤِﺐُّ ﺍﻟﺘَّﻮَّﺍﺑِﻴﻦَ ﻭَﻳُﺤِﺐُّ ﺍﻟْﻤُﺘَﻄَﻬِّﺮِﻳﻦَ(( ﺍ ﻟﺒﻘﺮﺓ 222 . ﻭﻣﻊ ﻫﺬﺍ ﻓﻠﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺾ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺴﺘﻤﺘﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺯﻭﺟﺘﻪ ﺑﻤﺎ ﺩﻭﻥ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺝ ﻛﻤﺎ ﺳﺒﻖ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻳﺚ ﻭﻻ ﻳﺤﻞ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺠﺎﻣﻌﻬﺎ ﺃﻳﻀﺎ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺎﺱ ، ﻭﻻ ﺇﻥ ﻳﻄﺄﻫﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺩﺑﺮﻫﺎ ﻟﻘﻮﻟﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ: )) ﻧِﺴَﺎﺅُﻛُﻢْ ﺣَﺮْﺙٌ ﻟَﻜُﻢْ ﻓَﺄْﺗُﻮﺍ ﺣَﺮْﺛَﻜُﻢْ ﺃَﻧَّﻰ ﺷِﺌْﺘُﻢْ ﻭَﻗَﺪِّﻣُﻮﺍ ﻟِﺄَﻧﻔُﺴِﻜُﻢْ ﻭَﺍﺗَّﻘُﻮﺍ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻭَﺍﻋْﻠَﻤُﻮﺍ ﺃَﻧَّﻜُﻢْ ﻣُﻠَﺎﻗُﻮﻩُ ﻭَﺑَﺸِّﺮْ ﺍﻟْﻤُﺆْﻣِﻨِﻴﻦَ( ) ( ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻟﺒﻘﺮﺓ (223 ﻭﻣﺤﻞ ﺍﻟﺤﺮﺙ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺝ ﻓﻘﻂ
( ﺳﺌﻞ ﻓﻀﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﻟﺸﻴﺦ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﺑﻦ ﺻﺎﻟﺢ ﺍﻟﻌﺜﻴﻤﻴﻦ -ﺭﺣﻤﻪ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ –
ﻣﺎ ﺣﺪﻭﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﺪﺍﻋﺒﺔ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻭﺯﻭﺟﺘﻪ ؟
ﺍﻟﺠﻮﺍﺏ : ﻳﻘﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﺰ ﻭﺟﻞ )) !ﻭَﺍﻟَّﺬِﻳﻦَ ﻫُﻢْ ﻟِﻔُﺮُﻭﺟِﻬِﻢْ ﺣَﺎﻓِﻈُﻮﻥَ(5) ﺇِﻟَّﺎ ﻋَﻠَﻰ ﺃَﺯْﻭَﺍﺟِﻬِﻢْ ﺃﻭْ ﻣَﺎ ﻣَﻠَﻜَﺖْ ﺃَﻳْﻤَﺎﻧُﻬُﻢْ ﻓَﺈِﻧَّﻬُﻢْ ﻏَﻴْﺮُ ﻣَﻠُﻮﻣِﻴﻦَ(( (6) ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻟﻤﺆﻣﻨﻮﻥ 6 -، ﻓﻘﺪ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻓﻲ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻻ ﻳﻼﻡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻋﺪﻡ ﺣﻔﻆ ﻓﺮﺟﻪ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻣﺮﺃﺗﻪ ﻭﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻓﻲ ﺍﺳﺘﻤﺘﺎﻉ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﺑﺰﻭﺟﺘﻪ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺾ ﺍﺻﻨﻌﻮﺍ ﻛﻞ ﺷﻲﺀ ﺇﻻ ﺍﻟﻨﻜﺎﺡ ﻓﻠﻜﻞ ﻭﺍﺣﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﻦ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺴﺘﻤﺘﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻵﺧﺮ ﺑﻤﺎ ﺷﺎﺀ ﺇﻻ ﻓﻲ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺾ ﻓﻼ ﻳﺤﻞ ﻟﻠﺮﺟﻞ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺠﺎﻣﻊ ﺯﻭﺟﺘﻪ ﻭﻫﻲ ﺣﺎﺋﺾ ﻟﻘﻮﻟﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ)) : ﻭَﻳَﺴْﺄَﻟُﻮﻧَﻚَ ﻋَﻦْ ﺍﻟْﻤَﺤِﻴﺾِ ﻗُﻞْ ﻫُﻮَ ﺃَﺫًﻯ ﻓَﺎﻋْﺘَﺰِﻟُﻮﺍ ﺍﻟﻨِّﺴَﺎﺀَ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﻤَﺤِﻴﺾِ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﻘْﺮَﺑُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﺣَﺘَّﻰ ﻳَﻄْﻬُﺮْﻥَ ﻓَﺈِﺫَﺍ ﺗَﻄَﻬَّﺮْﻥَ ﻓَﺄْﺗُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﻣِﻦْ ﺣَﻴْﺚُ ﺃَﻣَﺮَﻛُﻢْ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﺇِﻥَّ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻳُﺤِﺐُّ ﺍﻟﺘَّﻮَّﺍﺑِﻴﻦَ ﻭَﻳُﺤِﺐُّ ﺍﻟْﻤُﺘَﻄَﻬِّﺮِﻳﻦَ(( ﺍ ﻟﺒﻘﺮﺓ 222 . ﻭﻣﻊ ﻫﺬﺍ ﻓﻠﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺾ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺴﺘﻤﺘﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺯﻭﺟﺘﻪ ﺑﻤﺎ ﺩﻭﻥ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺝ ﻛﻤﺎ ﺳﺒﻖ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻳﺚ ﻭﻻ ﻳﺤﻞ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺠﺎﻣﻌﻬﺎ ﺃﻳﻀﺎ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺎﺱ ، ﻭﻻ ﺇﻥ ﻳﻄﺄﻫﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺩﺑﺮﻫﺎ ﻟﻘﻮﻟﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ: )) ﻧِﺴَﺎﺅُﻛُﻢْ ﺣَﺮْﺙٌ ﻟَﻜُﻢْ ﻓَﺄْﺗُﻮﺍ ﺣَﺮْﺛَﻜُﻢْ ﺃَﻧَّﻰ ﺷِﺌْﺘُﻢْ ﻭَﻗَﺪِّﻣُﻮﺍ ﻟِﺄَﻧﻔُﺴِﻜُﻢْ ﻭَﺍﺗَّﻘُﻮﺍ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻭَﺍﻋْﻠَﻤُﻮﺍ ﺃَﻧَّﻜُﻢْ ﻣُﻠَﺎﻗُﻮﻩُ ﻭَﺑَﺸِّﺮْ ﺍﻟْﻤُﺆْﻣِﻨِﻴﻦَ( ) ( ﺳﻮﺭﺓ ﺍﻟﺒﻘﺮﺓ (223 ﻭﻣﺤﻞ ﺍﻟﺤﺮﺙ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺝ ﻓﻘﻂ
